Lagi%20sedih%20banget%20gara%20-%20gara%20ditolak?
Udah%20sedihnya%20jangan%20lama%20-%20lama%20gitu%20donk!.%20Sebenarnya%20ditolak%20itu%20ada%20untungnya%20juga%20lho,%20jadi%20harusnya%20kamu%20gak%20perlu%20sedih%20berlarut%20-%20larut%20saat%20habis%20ditolak.
Nah,%20di%20bawah%20ini%20ada%208%20keuntungan%20dari%20wajibbaca.com%20saat%20merangkum%20dari%20laman%20hipwee.com%20bisa%20kamu%20dapetin%20saat%20kamu%20ditolak.%20Cek%20satu%20-%20satu%20yuk!
1.%20Ditolak%20Akan%20Membuatmu%20Berusaha%20Lebih%20Keras%20dan%20Lebih%20Baik%20LagiApa%20yang%20kamu%20lakukan%20setelah%20kamu%20ditolak%20seperti%20ini?
“Anda%20bagus,%20tapi%20kami%20rasa%20Anda%20kurang%20cocok%20dengan%20kriteria%20kami”;%20“Maaf,%20tapi%20kami%20rasa%20Anda%20bukan%20orang%20yang%20kami%20cari”;%20atau%20“Kamu%20baik%20sih,%20tapi%20aku%20cuman%20nganggep%20kamu%20teman…Maaf%20ya…”
BACA%20JUGA%20: Jadi%20Beginilah%205%20Tips%20Memilih%20Tempat%20Sampah%20Sesuai%20Karakter%20RuanganYa,%20ditolak%20emang%20sakit%20broh!%20Tapi%20sayang%20banget%20kalau%20kamu%20terus%20ngegalau,%20putus%20asa,%20nyumpah%20–%20nyampah%20serapah,%20dan%20nyalahin%20orang%20lain,%20duh!%20Jadi%20STOP%20lakukan%20itu%20deh!%20Daripada%20gitu%20mending%20kamu%20gunakan%20penolakan%20ini%20untuk%20introspeksi%20diri.%20Cari%20kesalahan%20dan%20kekuranganmu%20itu%20dimana.
Jadi%20sebelum%20nyalahin%20orang%20lain%20mending%20kamu%20cari%20salahmu%20dulu,%20siapa%20tahu%20memang%20ada%20yang%20salah%20sama%20dirimu.
2.%20Ditolak%20Mengingatkan%20Kita%20Bahwa%20Kita%20Hanya%20ManusiaKadang%20penolakan%20perlu%20kita%20alami%20hanya%20untuk%20sekadar%20pengingat%20bahwa%20kita%20hanyalah%20manusia.%20Ya,%20kita%20manusia%20biasa%20yang%20hanya%20bisa%20berencana,%20tanpa%20bisa%20menetapkan.%20Jadi%20tak%20perlu%20sombong%20dan%20pongah%20saat%20menjalani%20hidupmu,%20guys!
3.%20Ditolak%20Itu%20Bikin%20Sabar%20Dan%20TabahKetika%20ditolak%20itu%20rasanya%20emang%20sakiiit%20banget,%20jadi%20kehilangan%20harapan,%20hari%20–%20harimu%20tak%20lagi%20cerah,%20wajahmu%20jadi%20diselimuti%20mendung,%20yah%20pokoknya%20seolah%20dunia%20ini%20runtuh%20gitu%20deh!
BACA%20JUGA%20: 10%20Hal%20yang%20Perlu%20Diperhatikan%20Saat%20Mengecat%20Dinding%20Rumah%20Untuk%20Hasil%20yang%20MemuaskanTapi%20penolakan%20ini%20sebenarnya%20membantu%20kita%20buat%20jadi%20sabar%20dan%20tabah%20lho?!%20Kamu%20bisa%20saja%20enggak%20selalu%20dapetin%20apa%20yang%20kamu%20mau%20saat%20itu%20juga,%20tapi%20dengan%20usaha%20dan%20keyakinan%20kamu%20pasti%20bisa%20dapetin%20apa%20yang%20kamu%20inginkan.
Jadi%20jangan%20gampang%20nyerah%20gara%20–%20gara%20ditolak%20ya,%20guys!
4.%20Ditolak%20Bisa%20Membuka%20Jalan%20LainApa%20sih%20maksudnya%20jalan%20lain?
Maksudnya%20gini%20lho,%20ditolak%20itu%20bisa%20jadi%20adalah%20salah%20satu%20cara%20hidup%20untuk%20menunjukkanmu%20ada%20banyak%20opsi%20yang%20bisa%20kamu%20pilih%20di%20dalam%20hidupmu.%20Atau%20mungkin%20hidup%20ingin%20memberi%20tahumu%20bahwa%20ada%20jalan%20yang%20lebih%20baik%20yang%20bisa%20kamu%20lewati.
Jadi%20kalau%20misalnya%20kamu%20ditolak%20gebetanmu,%20jangan%20ragu%20cari%20gebetan%20baru,%20jangan%20ragu%20untuk%20jatuh%20cinta%20lagi,%20dan%20jangan%20ragu%20juga%20ungkapin%20cinta%20lagi,%20siapa%20tahu%20kali%20ini%20memang%20benar%20ketemu%20sama%20jodohmu.%20Hehehe.
5.%20Ditolak%20Membuat%20Kita%20Memikirkan%20Ulang%20Tujuan%20KitaDisaat%20kita%20bimbang%20untuk%20menentukan%20jalan%20mana%20yang%20kita%20pilih,%20penolakan%20bisa%20jadi%20jawaban%20buat%20galaumu%20itu,%20lho!
Contohnya%20gini%20kamu%20udah%20lulus%20SMA%20dan%20mau%20lanjutin%20kuliah.%20Passion%20kamu%20sebenarnya%20musik,%20tapi%20kedua%20orang%20tuamu%20ingin%20kamu%20masuk%20ke%20ekonomi.%20Karena%20bermaksud%20nyenengin%20orang%20tua,%20kamu%20daftar%20deh%20ke%20jurusan%20ekonomi,%20udah%20daftar%20kemana%20–%20mana%20tapi%20tetep%20nggak%20diterima.
Nah,%20terkadang%20penolakan%20seperti%20ini%20memaksa%20kita%20untuk%20memikirkan%20kembali%20tujuan%20kita.%20Apakah%20masih%20tetap%20lanjut%20nyoba%20daftar%20di%20ekonomi%20atau%20terjun%20aja%20ke%20dunia%20musik?
6.%20Ditolak%20Melebarkan%20Cara%20BerpikirmuPenolakan%20memberi%20kita%20waktu%20untuk%20berhenti%20sejenak%20untuk%20memikirkan%20apa%20yang%20telah%20kita%20abaikan%20saat%20kita%20kita%20terlalu%20fokus%20pada%20pekerjaan%20idaman%20kita%20atau%20gebetan%20–%20gebetan%20kita,%20dan%20berpikir%20bahwa%20itu%20adalah%20satu%20–%20satunya%20cara%20agar%20kita%20bahagia.
Penolakan%20ini%20akan%20mengubah%20caramu%20untuk%20memandang%20tujuanmu,%20mimpimu,%20dan%20apa%20yang%20harus%20kamu%20lakukan%20untuk%20mencapainya.%20Kalau%20tidak%20bisa%20jadi%20pasangan%20ya%20setidaknya%20bisa%20berteman,%20kalau%20tidak%20bisa%20jadi%20PNS%20jadi%20karyawan%20swasta%20atau%20jadi%20pengusaha%20juga%20bukan%20hal%20yang%20buruk%20kan?
7.%20Ditolak%20Membuatmu%20Lebih%20KuatSeperti%20besi%20yang%20harus%20ditempa%20untuk%20berguna,%20maka%20percayalah%20bahwa%20ditolak%20adalah%20salah%20satu%20cara%20yang%20diberikan%20kehidupan%20agar%20kamu%20menjadi%20lebih%20kuat%20lagi%20dari%20dirimu%20yang%20sebelumnya.%20Dan%20seperti%20pepatah%20yang%20bilang%20bahwa%20apapun%20yang%20tidak%20membunuhmu%20akan%20membuatmu%20bertambah%20kuat.
8.%20Dan%20Kesimpulannya,%20Ditolak%20Adalah%20Kesempatan%20Yang%20MendewasakanmuJadi guys, kau gak usah malu dengan segala penolakan yang kamu dapatkan. Baik itu dalam hal asmara, studi, beasiswa, kerjaan, atau usahamu. Mulai kini pandanglah penolakan sebagai hal positif yang terjadi dalam hidupmu.
Hal positif yang sanggup mendewasakanmu, meng-indahkanmu, dan membuatmu menjadi manusia yang lebih baik dari dirimu yang sebelumnya.
Keep positive yo!
